DARK SIDE #065 - Taken In Hand Relationships.
Dark Angel and KnotNice team up with Owen & Joni from the Orangmonkeycast podcast - to discuss podcasting, as well as Owen & Joni's kink. Owen and Joni are a married couple that live the "Taken In Hand" lifestyle, and they open up to share with us.
Often described as a "1950's style" relationship; a "Taken In Hand" (TIH) relationship - is a relationship in which, to the delight of both people, the man actively controls the woman. The degree of control and the way the male retains control vary from Taken In Hand couple to Taken In Hand couple, but in all cases both actively want the man to be in charge. No matter how strong, tough and forceful a Taken In Hand woman may be, and no matter how hard she might try to take control in their relationship, she would be aghast if her man were to let her get the upper hand. Likewise, no matter how loving, kind and considerate the man may be, he prefers to keep his woman firmly in hand.
In a traditional "TIH" - the woman is unlikely to identify with the word ‘submissive’, and especially at the beginning of the relationship may need to be thoroughly conquered. The man wears the trousers but he puts the relationship and his lady first. His control is active and ongoing rather than passive or a one-off.